Let's explain....!

Do we need to?  Do we have to ?  Explain what ! What did I do?

Isn't it so unnecessary that we keep giving explanation?  Do we owe anyone any explanation.....at all? 

The answer is NO.  We don't owe anyone any explanation unless we have wronged them.  Period.  But what happens when we try explaining?  It seems that we are trying to convince someone which is none of their business anyway.  The more we explain, the more the question ❓❓❓ inflicted on you and it all ends up with feeling guilty.  In other words, it doesn't end up well enough.  

So, what's the solution when interrogated or interviewed by random people trying to make a conversation ? 'Stick to the point.'. Not a word more, not a word less. Or maybe sometimes, no words at all.  

Words are not the only tools of communicating.  Try silence or 👀😈 even facial expressions 😂.  It works!  Believe me!  

We owe no explanation to no one!  It's that simple.  Don't ask, don't tell.  Yes don't put the other person in that awkward position that he has to explain himself while he is struggling to rescue himself.  We wouldn't  want to be trapped in such a situation.  

Besides, explanation not only makes the conversation longer, it's makes it lose its flavor and makes it hard to swallow or digest.  Already I am feeling sick 🤢 just writing about.  Imagine having to undergo it!  

Let's just halt here and end 🔚 in a respectful way.  We need no explanation 😁.  Or do we???

The New Calendar Year : 2021

Every new calendar year is full of promises, surprises, challenges and so many unopened gifts 🎁.  2021 will be no different.  But it is definitely up to every individual how they will perceive it and more importantly what they will make of it!

2021 is a clean slate, a white piece of 📜 paper handed to us.  Let's write it and be an author of our own dreams, goals and plans.  We write, we recite.  Every word therein is a reflection of our thoughts and choices. 

It's we who make these important decisions.  Whether we want to ignore the shadows and bask in the sunshine 🌞 or sulk in the the darkness of our dark 🌑 thoughts💭 and ignore the golden 🌞 sunshine and golden opportunities.  Which will it be?

Just like 2020 is not coming back, neither will the rest of the years that passed us by long ago.The way you structure the new year will be the way you live with it.  It's more than a thought...... it's a desire.  An effort that will bring results, the results of your own choices.  

Wishing everyone a very productive and wholesome 2021.  A year to be always grateful for and proud of.