We all have buried within us piles of grudges, bitterness, ill feelings, enmity and what not, against many individuals we have come across in our life. Our anger towards them is ever on the rise because they have hurt us in some way or the other. Right?
But we should not hold on to such emotions for long. In my opinion, there are two valid reasons for it. What are they? No, I won't keep you guessing forever.
People change and realize their follies. If they have changed, let us too..... but cautiously. Get over it and iron it out. Heave a sigh of relief and ease yourself of negativity. By letting old feelings to exit, you are sure to feel all better and healed. Above all, you did not even need to utter a word for something that got fixed itself!
Are you ready to hear the second reason? This one has emotional ties. It can bring you to tears. When that person is suffering, undergoing pain, is buried in problems, would you still hold grievances against such a person. Certainly not! This is the time to let go......! No words are needed here other than sympathy.
Not every time we need to get even with people who has hurt us, damaged us, deceived us or disappointed us.
Do you agree with me? You may not but this time don't leave it unsaid. Tell me why you disagree with me. Opinions differ and as they say, "We can always agree to disagree. "
Good!!well explained.
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