Just like the drowning man catches hold of a straw, the coward takes refuge in COMPLAINTS AND BLAME. Yes! That is their only hope and only way to justify their inability and uselessness.
Blaming and complaining has no end other than disaster. This is where it eventually leads.
When we take this direction, we stand in the way of our own sunshine and block our success. We turn the seasons of our life into dark and gloomy days just like the picture above depicts.
Why would we ever blame others for our actions, decisions and choices? If we happen to think that others have harmed us in some way or the other, it is their decision and they will face the consequences. But what we are facing are the consequences of our own choices.
We should learn to hold ourselves responsible for the musfortunes in our lives, just the way we hold ourselves responsible for the fortunes in our lives. Courage, bravery and generosity lies in taking credit AND blame. This balances life like nothing else does.
When we have the urge to blame others and whine away, let us first blame ourselves for listening to them, taking favors from them and submitting to them. It was all our own decision and weakness.
No amount of complaining will ever help. To get to the road to recovery the very first step is to take the blame and squish all complains.
BLAME IS THE GAME THAT CAUSES SHAME.
COMPLAINING WILL FLAME DESTRUCTION.
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