Just like the drowning man catches hold of a straw, the coward takes refuge in COMPLAINTS AND BLAME. Yes! That is their only hope and only way to justify their inability and uselessness.
Blaming and complaining has no end other than disaster. This is where it eventually leads.
When we take this direction, we stand in the way of our own sunshine and block our success. We turn the seasons of our life into dark and gloomy days just like the picture above depicts.
Why would we ever blame others for our actions, decisions and choices? If we happen to think that others have harmed us in some way or the other, it is their decision and they will face the consequences. But what we are facing are the consequences of our own choices.
We should learn to hold ourselves responsible for the musfortunes in our lives, just the way we hold ourselves responsible for the fortunes in our lives. Courage, bravery and generosity lies in taking credit AND blame. This balances life like nothing else does.
When we have the urge to blame others and whine away, let us first blame ourselves for listening to them, taking favors from them and submitting to them. It was all our own decision and weakness.
No amount of complaining will ever help. To get to the road to recovery the very first step is to take the blame and squish all complains.
BLAME IS THE GAME THAT CAUSES SHAME.
COMPLAINING WILL FLAME DESTRUCTION.
We are all looking for SOMETHING and land up saying there is nothing left now! No sincerity, no loyalty, no truth, no respect, just about nothing. It is all hollow, empty, bare etc.
Very true! There is nothing left and nothing much to talk about. But, we often forget to look at the right place where we can find EVERYTHING that we are looking for. Yes everything that we need, wish or desire. Where that can be?
Did I get you curious or confused or maybe irritated? I apologise if I did so. I did not mean to. All I wanted was to create a little suspense and have fun. Ooops! I know it's not funny and I should come out with what I exactly want to say. Right!
Okay that's alright. I will not try your patience any longer. So, my question was, "Looking for something? " Here is the short and simple reply to what you were waiting for. Anything that we are all looking for is WITHIN us. In our grip and in our reach. Its all within us forgotten,forlorn, abandoned, unused and we are looking for it "elsewhere?"
What we cannot find within us, we cannnot find it anywhere, be it LOVE, PEACE, SINCERITY, Joy etc. These are generated within us and by us. Why are we looking for it far and wide? WHY?
Still looking for something? Now you know where to find it.
Look nowhere.......it's right there.
We are on the threshold of welcoming another year and about to bid farewell to 2017. Let us take a quick look at 2017 which is about to become HISTORY !
Like every other year, 2017 had its good and bad days, rainy and sunny days, tough and easy days. It has been a learning experience, a period of opportunities, used and unused, and a passage of time.
Yet there will be so many days to cherish. A whole year of additions and subtractions. While some left us, others came in. There were losses and gains.
But what I really want to talk about is........now that we are left with two WHOLE months, let us make the most of them. It is not the question of how. It is a matter of our own personal will. A determination of not letting this year go by without having made some difference to ourselves and to others. Let us set out on the road to achievement. Let's just do it!
Buckle up, shuffle our bones and muscles, ruffle our hair, stand our ground and call it a race. Let us do all we can to make this year memorable.
No one knows who has how much time! Unfortunately! But nothing to worry about. Before this year comes to an end, let us stride with pride to achieve all we can. We have the time! Sixty one days to be a little nicer, a little kinder, a little more considerate, compromising, cooperative, constructive, positive and optimistic. Any and everything, to make this year end on a happy note.
Improvement and means of improvement lie before us. All we have to do is focus and reach for them. Soon, 2017 will be a year worthwhile. This is my request and reminder to all my viewers. Make this year a little nicer.
LET US ALL DO JUST OUR SHARE TO END THIS YEAR WITH JOY AND USHER ANOTHER YEAR WITH GREATER JOY. EVERYTHING RESTS ON OUR ATTITUDE AND WILLINGNESS.
KEYWORD : DETERMINATION.
Earlier I had written a blog on, "Rights overshadows Duties".
Similarly this blog is on Freedom and Responsibilities. Just like Rights and Duties have a strong connection, freedom and responsibilities come together. They coexist. They are hooked.
Freedom does not mean being savage and doing whatever we feel like. With freedom comes the price tag of responsibility, also known as accountability.
While we enjoy the freedom of expression, action, happiness etc. we are also tied down with limits, boundaries and consequences. Freedom does not mean sheer enjoyment. There is a lot more to it. While freedom gives us more choices, it takes away from us the right to blame others. We are not slaves anymore that we can just put the blame on our masters.
When we have the privilege to take, we should subsequently learn to give. While we attain freedom, we cannot hold anyone hostage. The real freedom lies in giving the same freedom to others.
In slavery there is actually no slave or master. It is just slavery. Both tie down each other. One cannot supervise or dictate without any stress.
Unspoken words are words that have been buried, not voiced, hidden, undiscovered, undisclosed, forgotten and lost. Valuable and golden words that never found their way out, feelings that were never vented nor expressed.
"Unspoken Words", is an effort to help bring out the best and eliminate the rest. It is a tireless attempt to bring joy, to add to the existing joy and keep the boat of joy sailing forever.
Through this blog we want to share unspoken pain, feelings, thoughts, views and opinions.
Above all, we want you to know and understand that you are NOT alone. Whatever you may be undergoing, there are many others facing the same obstacles and difficulties. Let us reach out and together we can find our way out of ANY and EVERY rough and tough situation and condition.
Yes we can do it. Let us be each other's voice, each other's strength and each others companion.
Unspoken words understand and shares your unspoken pain and strives to bring you unspoken happiness. What is today UNSPOKEN, will one day be heard........LOUD AND CLEAR.
While everyone, everywhere is getting intoxicated by technology, there are yet kids who are giving preference to "ART." Amazing! Right?
Yes, it is not only amazing, it is motivating. It sparks hope amidst ashes.
While today's world is dominated by technology, it is a joy to see kids reaching out for art and creativity. They are keeping up the flag of aesthitic value.
Art is a mean of beauty, pureness, individuality, uniqueness, and a measure of inner expression. All these infinite talents gets submerged in technology where all personal identity gets mixed up and drowned into stereotypes. No matter what, art and creativity stand out like stars....... in a very dark night.
Let us help keep up the dwindling value of art and creativity that brings joy and lifts our gift of talent.
While technology is a mode to advance and retrieve information , art should not be discarded and forgotten.
Art is the only form of reaching out which gives a very personal touch and speaks a language that technology is yet to discover.
P.S. Real works of art by a seven year old girl.
This displays her love for beauty and joy
for creativity.
Yes too many Twos !!
It's all Twos, all - the -way. To be exact, it is 22,222. That is how many are my views to this point. Wow! I am amazed at you....... for making so many Twos. It's you, who gave me so many twos by reading my blog posts.
With every view, every comment, every shared posts I gained new confidence, new strength, and a new urge to write and aim for new heights.
If not because of U, there wouldn't be so many twos. Thanks for getting me there, from NOWHERE to SOMEWHERE , from a scratch to new heights.
I have learnt to share, I have learnt to care because of YOU, who set my mind to gear. All because of you, I could dare, dare to voice my opinions, my thoughts and my unspoken words.
You did it! You put the twos together for me and made it 22222.
Cheers to YOU!
