A Help-full Advice

"HELP!" does not mean "ADVICE" in any language.  

We all want to help, but with advises only, advises that we do not apply on ourselves.  We are ever ready to advise other what they could and should have done, forgetting that when a person is seeking help what "we" could and should do.  When someone approach you for help, just do the little or whatever you can rather than further making the person's life miserable by blaming the person for being in that situation.  So as to justify ourselves and our inability to help, we try to find fault with the person who is already helpless and in difficulties.  The pile of advises that we are ready to offer, we should reserve it for ourselves for we are soon going to need it.  We should understand that anyone, anytime can be under any situation.  But somehow, we seem to be so assured that if others are in some kind of pitiful condition, it will never happen to us.  That is how ignorant we are!  Problems does not come with announcements.  It may be the cause of our negligence, our shortcomings or whatever.  We all make mistakes.  NO ONE IS PERFECT!  We learn from our mistakes.  But at the same time, when anyone is in need, just help out and pull the person out of any emergency that person maybe in.  The person maybe in acute financial condition, serious health issues, relationship problems etc.  Offer help and comfort not criticism.  That is not going to help.  In fact that would be like adding salt to injury.  Help means help and nothing else.  Help out, help the person OUT of trouble.  Please help!