Control Confusion

So what is the confusion about?  Here it is!  We have no control over our own life and yet we want to control each other!

We are all going 'out-of-control.'  We have NO control over our own emotion, desires, whims and fancies, anger, our children, our life and yet........we want to impose ourselves on others.  How is that possible?  We fail to fulfill our own duties and yet blame others.  

There seems to be complete chaos.  Let us all first get a grip on ourselves and let others take control of their life.  Let us all mind our own business and this will give us ample time to focus on our own problems and will lessen a whole lot of problems.  

CAN WE DO IT?   YES, WE CAN!